Love is how much you care about a person

Monday, June 19, 2006

Well...today i come into this world of blogging after all i used to enjoy in emailing, chatting, scrapping and orkutting....

Sometimes, you feel happy you have come so far successfully and you have done all that it takes to be at the place you dreamt to be (For me..it was coming to US and getting a job here..which i finally did as i am the first in my whole family to come to this part of the world). But, is it all over..was all i dreamt of just locked in these 4 walls of my bedroom and a 4*4 cubicle ? I really dont know.

Life's so strange..you feel proud you come so far but is that it...or is there more to life? Is Life all about a mundane routine to go to work, come back home, talk to friends, feel that you couldnt meet your near and dear ones for so long, miss them, sometimes cry, then make up your mind and go to cook, eat whatever is available and live life as it comes. I just dont know.

I think we are missing a very special element in life - love. Of course, there is a whole bunch of people who will start saying if you have a gal, you will be happy. But, does having a gal change the way you look at life. Ya, you do have a partner but now both of us go to work, come back home tired, miss all our close ones, cry together, cook something, eat whatever we can in the little time we have and then go back to sleep so that you can get to work early the next morning.

So, i personally feel when i talk about a missing element and that is love, love is all about how much you care about a person. You can care for your parents by sending them money or getting them something nice to wear or a car to drive. They are the happiest when you be with them. Mom smiles when we eat her nice tasty food. Dad is the happiest man when he plays with his grand-children and go out with his dear kids.

Sometimes it looks so strange but when we do identify what we think love is all about, i think we can fill in the gaps to some extent. I love my parents a lot that i would love to take them around the world and show them around. I love being with my close ones .. buddies and their families, go for a picnic with the whole gang and go to a vacation with my gang and their family. Nothing gives us that distinct feeling of joy and happiness than when we care about our dear ones.

That's what love is all about. It comes in different forms but to me love is all about how much you care about a person.